Reflections on PYR Partnership with NextUp at Elkhart Thompson, Fall 2018
What I enjoy most about working with the youth at NextUp is helping them create a community for themselves. We allow them to dictate their own group agreements, their own rules on how we will all conduct ourselves in the space. Things like: kindness, respect, listening when another is speaking, be calm, have fun, and no judgment. They decide how we will relate to one another and I believe this is what helps creates a safe space for them to open up, to share, to be vulnerable.
It seems that there is a lot of competition for space to be heard and seen amongst the youth. This manifests as attacking one another with words, speaking over one another, trying to make space for themselves. (behavior not unfamiliar to how we as adults can sometimes interact). In Mindfulness on the Mat, we remind the young people of the agreements that were collectively chosen for the space. They are reminded that there is space for each of them and that the right to be in the space and feel safe belongs to each of us.
I have watched friendships bloom and grow. I have observed youth develop the ability to nourish and support one another. I have witnessed young people become a beautiful example of the healing power of community. This is why I love working with NextUp and Project Yoga Richmond, each session a child reminds me of how innately kind and mindful we are if given the space and gentle reminders of our true nature. I believe my experience of the breakout sessions is just a microcosm of the community NextUp and Project Yoga Richmond are creating for each school they collaborate with. And to me, that is truly a beautiful thing that I am proud to be a part of.
-PYR Ambassador, Syd Collier